Thursday, March 1, 2012

Too much for one post and to think of a clever title...

Mabel now asks the cashiers for a "ba-oon" everytime we go to the grocery store.

I can't believe it's March, time has flown by! I've got a lot of random thoughts to go with a lot of random pictures from the past couple of months so bare with me on this post. I'm also a basket case of hormones these days so it should make for an interesting post. 


Aside from a few days of cold here and there, the weather In Sedona has been amazing! Spring has sprung and we've been logging a lot of outdoor hours.


Mabel loves the park. She loves seeing all the kids and dogs. Our favorite park has lots of grass to run around on.

      

 I introduced Mabel to mid-afternoon ice cream,  right out of the container, sister jumped right in.


During an afternoon walk we stopped to take some sweet pictures on some cool steps we found. Here are a few of my favorites. My favorite pictures of Mabel are always the same. I love that she still has the same sadly sweet stare she had the day she was born.


Grandma Joyce came for a visit a couple of weeks ago. We all went to Sunday brunch at L'auberge and Mabel ate a weeks worth of food. It's so nice when family comes to visit, we get lonely out here.


For Valentines day Sam did a good job so I have to give him some credit. He had our favorite Ice Cream you can only find in Kansas City shipped here for us to enjoy together. I thought it was so sweet and thoughtful. The man knows the way to my heart is through my taste buds. While Sam's Mom was here we actually got to go out for dinner alone, for the first time in a long time. Sam and I don't get out much without Mabes, but we make the best of our time at home and actually prefer it that way. However once in a while it's nice to get away for a few hours and it was just what we needed.

Mabel caught a bad cold that lasted for about 5 days. That week there was a few jammie days and lots of snuggles. I hate when she is sick but I am also so grateful for how lucky we've been thus far. When she is sick all she wants to do is be held, which secretly makes me happy, and is much more difficult when you are 9 months pregnant. I guess I better get used to schlepping around 2 babies :) She is back to her silly sweet self again.

Mabel recently discovered Mother Goose. She has this book of nursery rhymes sitting on her top shelf, I thought I would save for when she got a bit older. One day she pointed to it and said "dat" so I thought I would read a few to her. 90 some pages later I still had her attention and it's her new obsession. Peter Piper is her favorite, she attempts to say it but it comes out as "puta..pita...pata...puta".


She is speaking so well. She attempts to say so many new words each day. "Alma" and "Coo coo" (Elmo and cookies) are the cutest. Cracker, cheese, apple, milk, book, pickle, tea, and please are a few more she has added to her vocabulary. I am starting to lose track.

Speaking of Elmo, Sam took Mabel to meet the real deal at a screening for the documentary, "Being Elmo" during the Sedona Film Festival. I opted to stay home so they could have a special Daddy and Daughter night. Sometimes I forget that they need there alone time once in awhile.




We've been busy yet RELAX has been our motto for the past couple of weeks. I don't know how that works but it makes sense to me.  I am officially in  nesting mode where the laundry is always done, the house is always clean, and the fridge is always stocked. I'm even doing odd things like paying bills long before the due date :)  I've really been trying to savor these last moments alone with Mabel because all to soon, we'll have a sweet baby brother hanging out with us.

We are totally ready for his arrival and I am not sure what Mabel thinks about it all. Sometimes we feel like she knows something is up and other times she is completely oblivious.


She was not too thrilled when we told her the swing was for the baby but happy as a clam when we set up his crib in our room.



She even got to test it out when we had 4 hour power outage the other night which conveniently happened right in the beginning stages of our bedtime routine. It was so dark and she was a little freaked out so we wanted to keep her close by. A power outage was not something we were prepared for mind you, Thank God Sam just happened to come home a bit early that night. It's now on our list to make a "power outage kit" and keep it in an easily accessible spot. All we had was our phones, 2 almost burnt-out, scented candles and Mabel's toy flashlight.



It's a  bittersweet feeling, I am so excited for this little guy to come, yet a little anxious about how my girl is going to fare. For the past 15 months she has been the center of our world, the apple of our eyes. Now very soon she will be sharing the spotlight. I know she will be the sweetest big sister, don't get me wrong, but I also know we are in for a huge adjustment when we come home with a new baby. For the first time in her life, there will be times in the day when she will have to wait or my attention will be on baby brother, so it hurts my heart a little to think she could ever feel sad or left out on my account.  I'm also so anxious about the hospital stay. I have never spent more than a few hours away from Mabel let alone a few nights. I'm that crazy Mama who gets up no less than 2 times a night to check on her, make sure she is covered up, and didn't lose her snugglies or stuffed pink pig. Hopefully the time in the hospital will fly by as it did with Mabel. And as far as our adjustment period,  I'm sure there will be tough days in the beginning, but I also know it's all going to work itself out in time. 


Mabel attempting to eat with chopsticks, she actually did alright.


Lately, during a lot of our moments spent together as a family, Sam and I end up imagining our future. We try to picture scenarios of what our life will be like this time next year when we have our, not 1 but , 2 babies running around the house, eating at  the dinner table, playing at the park, fighting in the car etc.

 

When we were in the final stretch with Mabel we had a whole different set of fears. After her arrival our confidence as parents increased each day and we jumped at the chance to do it all again. If I had to explain our experience looking back, I would compare it to a roller coaster you are scared out of your mind to ride. First you wait in a horridly long line thinking of all the bad things that could happen. Once you finally make it through the line, you take your seat, and do your final gut check as a total stranger buckles you in. There is no going back now. All of a sudden you are off on this crazy ride that shakes you to the core, you are terrified and excited at the same time, it's wild. Then after a spilt second it's done and you breathe a sigh of relief that you survived and wonder why you were so scared to begin with. As your feet hit the pavement your first thought is but what else? I want to do it again. And here we are, almost done, doing it again.

























































Wednesday, February 8, 2012

A Long Overdue Christmas Post

I've attempted to sit down and tackle this Christmas post a few times since we've been back from North Dakota but I just couldn't get back into the whole "Christmas Spirit" once it was all over. I don't know if I am alone in this feeling but it seems to me that there is so much anticipation before the holidays, so much to do, and so much excitement, that the month of December just flies by. Once it is all over you're left with this feeling of "ugh". It's all very overwhelming, you've usually eaten too much, seen way too many family members and friends, and spent more money than you wanted to. Don't get me wrong, I love the holidays however, once a year is plenty enough for me.

Looking back it all seems like such a blur. I feel like we crammed the 12 days of Christmas into 4 short days. We had a lot to do, and so little time to do it, but it was amazing all the same.

We arrived on Christmas eve morning where Aunties Ali and Ivy were waiting impatiently at the airport for us. Sam and I had been up since 1:30 am AZ time  (I did get a nap in on the drive to the airport) so we were a little wired. Mabel was a trooper to say the least. She was happy as can be when I picked her up from bed and put her in her car seat at 2:00 am and I don't think she cried once at the airport or on the plane. She immediately started showing off for her Aunties. Once we arrived at Grandma's, after a good nap and bath, the festivities began.


The Weather in North Dakota this Christmas was not typical. Most of my North Dakota Christmas memories, in fact all of them, give me visions of 12 foot snow drifts and leave me with chills at the thought of -40 degree days. We had no snow, which I wasn't sad about and it was actually +40 degrees most of the time we were there.

Christmas eve we were joined by my cousin Nichole and her ever so entertaining 8 year old, Jayce, as well as my Uncle JP. Mabel loves Jayce, I think it's the combo of curly hair and personality, he's got a lot of both.


Christmas Morning we all slept in until after 9:00 am.  Even though I swore to everyone we should go to 10:00 am mass so we could be back in time to let Mabel take her coveted morning nap. We even put a pot of money on weather or not my brother Josh, who is 22, would meet us there. We ended up making the decision to go at 11:30 and turns out Josh showed up to church on time as requested at 10:00 am with no sign of his family. He was happy he got the pot of money.

We all watched as Mabel opened up her gifts from Santa. It took her awhile to understand that these were presents for her. When I handed her her stocking she dumped the contents of it out and tried to put it on her foot :)


Finally, her very own tooth brush! She was very excited.



We look like a tired bunch...


Santa brought Mabel  Rock and Roll Elmo. She had seen him in the store so many times and even thrown a few fits when we would leave without him.





Elmo was a hit and we all had his songs stuck in our heads for the rest of the day.


Elmo even got his teeth brushed.


I love Mabel's, "I just woke up from a good nap" look.


My Mom had Sam in the kitchen showing off his skills.

                        


When I was little my Mom would dress us kids in coordinating outfits for the Holidays. One year it was red corduroy and I didn't particularly love it back then. Isn't it funny how the first Christmas dress I pick for my daughter is non other than red corduroy.


She looked so sweet with her little peter pan collar and black-and-white saddle shoes (that didn't stay on long), while steeling Christmas ornaments off Grandma's tree.


Taking pictures in front of the tree is a must at our house and I wanted to get our little family before dinner where Mabel usually ends up wearing a few courses.


After dinner we all settled into our spots in the living room so the children, Ivy and Mabel, could tear into their gifts.


Mabel got spoiled as well as everyone else. Every year before opening gifts my Mom always says something along the lines of "Don't get too excited, I didn't get much". The reality is we usually get much more.


Mabel got several books which we had to read on the spot. I try to read to her whenever she asks no matter what I'm doing. I love her love of books and never want it to fade away.


And to finish off the evening, another attempt at pictures in front of the tree. It usually takes a few tries before getting a half decent one. Someday I would love to get all the pictures together from over the years of us kids posed in front of the tree. Now I'm not talking about the good ones that get sent to family or used on the Christmas card, I'm talking the ones in between, where we can be seen fighting, rolling our eyes, or laughing at my moms crazy attempts to get us to smile




A perfect Christmas for all. The End.